What is The Sigma Male Personality

Sigma males are introverts. They are quite content by themselves. They don’t need social stimulation to have a good time or perform well in their respective careers. They spend a considerable amount of their time alone thinking, contemplating, observing, learning and planning. Crowds drain their energy and solitude energizes them. Their preference to fly solo does not come from a lack of social skills. The amount of time Sigma males spend alone allows them to observe and learn about people well, making them Exceptionally good at social interaction and communication. They are lone wolves by choice, not due to being socially awkward. Sigma males socialize well when needed and the vast knowledge, unique perspective, and excellent communication skills they possess make them very popular too.

Sigma males are generally quiet. Even when they do socialize, they would never dominate a conversation, but rather listen to and observe others. They are capable of getting in touch with their inner solace even when they are in not-so-quiet surroundings.

Nonconformity is another prominent trait of Sigma male's personality. A Sigma male would not live by the standards, values, and rules set by society, he has his own. Acting in a certain way only because that is what the rest of society does sounds ridiculous to him. The only instances where he does conform to the social norms will be where his values and those set up by the society have a common ground or he feels a compromise is justified. He is not a trend follower but a trend maker.

Independence, self-reliance, and self-confidence are major components of the Sigma male archetype too. Their nonconforming and introverted nature demands that they can not rely on others to achieve their goals so they always equip themselves with the necessary knowledge and skills to live the life they want. Being introverted means they are self-aware, that they know exactly who they are, and what their strengths and weaknesses are too.

Sigma males tend to stay invisible. They don’t seek fame or popularity. They don’t need other people’s approval to do things. They are never bothered by how other people perceive them.

Sigma males are successful individuals. Their alone time allows them to gain and possess the skills and knowledge necessary to succeed in anything they do whether it’s a career, education, or even recreation. They are driven, and focused and often reach their goals without the hassle and effort the other people have to have in order to succeed. They usually go on to be self-employed or entrepreneurs, philosophers, or artists instead of getting a traditional job.

Sigma males are often dominant, just not in a typical manner. They can have a commanding presence, but they are neither aggressive nor overly friendly.

One might assume that a Sigma male's quiet, introverted nature and their absence or lack of interest in the social hierarchy, fame, or material things in life can make it difficult for him to find female partners, the reality is quite contrary. To the Women, they appear to be rebellious, confident, mysterious, composed, driven, and even indifferent to the ladies, qualities that make a man irresistible to women.

While the women folk find Sigma males irresistibly attractive, how Sigma males feel about women could not have been more different. They often tend to ignore women and there are many reasons for this. A Sigma male does not want to be tied down and might find a woman’s need for attention expectations of commitment binding. They don’t want their quiet solace to be disturbed by the drama and nagging many women to resort to when they face problems. They resent it when women play hard to get. They will undoubtedly despise women who put up a false persona or are gold diggers. The irony is that a Sigma male's indifference to women intrigues them and piques their curiosity, making him even more desirable.

Even with all these factors, a Sigma male can still have a good relationship with a woman provided she is compatible, can give him space, not make a fuss over trivialities, welcoming new experiences and adventures that her partner is so eager to take on. If you are a woman looking for a man who is honest and an attentive listener, a Sigma male might be a good prospect.

There are both advantages and disadvantages to being a Sigma male. Freedom is one of the greatest advantages. A man who does not feel obliged to please or keep up with others can afford to do what he wants when wants to do it. Being able to attract members of the opposite sex with relatively less effort and pretense is another. Efficiency is another advantage. The genuine and authentic lifestyle Sigma has allowed him to save a lot of money and time. The primary drawback to being a sigma male is that such an individual is a man without a tribe. Every man faces situations where he needs others from time to time, especially when he is in distress, as in illness or other not-so-favorable situations. This is why some Sigma males who are adventurous wanderers in their youth give up on their nomadic lifestyle in old age and settle down. Another major drawback is that society always does not take kindly to someone who refuses to accept its norms and tries to walk in their own solitary path, making them susceptible to depression and bullying, especially in their younger years.

If you find yourself to be a Sigma male, embrace it! Go on to live your life how you want to. You can be a great inspiration, the world could use some freethinking. If you are a woman dating a Sigma male, keep in mind that he is one to cherish.